Mar 08

Matthew Weinger
I moved to suburban Detroit from out of state toward the end of fifth grade, when I was ten years old. I found myself as the much maligned new kid amongst 75 or so children who’d been together since kindergarten. What easily could have meant disaster for my self-esteem instead became a love affair with my new friends. I was almost immediately embraced, welcomed, and included by Micah and his peers, a group known as the Circle of Friends.
It turns out that being the new kid is a blessing in disguise. I’m sure Micah at the time thought little of what he had done. But look, that’s the whole point! To him I was merely a new friend. A quick display of friendliness and compassion on his part meant the entire world to someone else, that being me. I won’t ever forget that day…Circle of Friends more than opened my eyes; it opened my heart and opened my mind.
I no longer see the world the way I used to see it. No more cool kids and weirdos or jocks and dorks. No more retards. Micah, his family and his circle have taught me to view and accept people as individuals without classifications. Just because someone stutters doesn’t mean they aren’t worthy of conversation. A blind man would certainly enjoy being read aloud to. Someone who can’t run so fast may still get satisfaction from being a member of a track and field team. A child who has poor penmanship could well be a magnificent writer. Luckily, the standards by which society measures people are evolving, if ever for the better…
Thanks to Micah and his Circle of Friends, I feel as though I am a better friend, a better person, leading a better life.
Tagged with: acceptance • Friends • inclusion
Feb 17

Micah Fialka-Feldman
My name is Micah. I am 25 years old and I want to tell you about my life and my dreams. In first grade I was in a special ed classroom because I had a cognitive disability. I was not in the same room as my friends. After about four months, I told my parents, “I want to go in the same door as my friends.” That was my first dream for myself.
My parents listened to me. They helped me to get my dream to come true. I was moved into the class where all of my friends were and I stayed with my friends all the way through high school. It was cool. My friends helped me and we had fun. Sometimes they would write down what I wanted to say in my journal because I didn’t write. I had a great Circle of Friends and we did fun things together during recess and sometimes after school. Some of them are still my friends now. I got help from my teachers too.
In high school, I still went to the general ed classes. I learned other ways to do some things. Because of my disability I don’t write. I have a lot of sight words, but I don’t read like most of my friends. I use special software like “screen reader” which reads whatever is on my computer screen. I also use Dragon Naturally Speaking ®. I talk into my microphone and the words I say go on the screen. I can read and send my own emails. I can learn a lot by using the computer. All kids like me should know about these things.
Since 5th grade I was a part of my IEP meetings (Individual Educational Planning). My friends would come for the first part to talk about what they thought I was learning. Sometimes I did a power point of my dreams and what I wanted to learn in school. It was cool to have my friends at the meeting because they had good ideas to help me. They didn’t stay for the whole meeting., they thought it was kind of boring!!!
In high school, my parents wanted me to run cross country. At first I didn’t like the idea, but I got use to it. I could only run about a block in my freshman year. When I was a senior I ran 2 miles in 23 minutes. I was proud….and tired.
I still learned a lot in high school. Sometimes I didn’t write a paper but I would interview someone on a topic and video tape it. I would give this to the teacher and it would be my paper.
I will tell you more about my life in another blog. There is a lot to tell you. I travel all around the country to speak at conferences about my life and how other kids can be included in their schools. I tell teachers and parents to help the kids have big dreams.
micahff@aol.com
www.throughthesamedoor.com
Tagged with: Accommodations • Cognitive Disability • Dreams • Elementary • Friends • High School • IEP • special education
Jan 31

Madison McKnight
Majoring in Early Childhood Education has provided me with many opportunities in which allowed me to broaden my horizons. However, I feel that the most beneficial experience I have had was when I worked at the RISE School of Stillwater. The RISE School is a preschool where children with disabilities attend school with children who do not have disabilities. I did a field experience there and it has been one of the most rewarding experiences of my college career. The overall lesson I took from working at the RISE School was the importance of inclusion in the classroom. Inclusion, to me, means involving every child in every aspect of learning that is provided in the classroom no matter what the subject matter or content area. Never have I seen a better job example of this than at the RISE School.
Throughout the day at RISE, children participate in breakfast, music therapy, centers, art, circle time, outside play, and lunch. Every child is given the same amount of attention no matter what their physical or intellectual level may be. When I first started observing and working with the children I thought that this might hold back the children who do not have a disability but what I noticed is that it was actually helping them. Those children who did not need as much one-on-one help or guidance were helping those children that did. I noticed this especially during centers. The children would all be playing as if they were all the same person. The children could not tell a difference and I believe this is because the faculty and staff at the school did such an amazing job with inclusion.
Along with doing group activities, the children were all taught self help skills. Every 3- and 4-year-old needs help learning how to wash their hands, throw their trash away, and take their plates to the sink. The teachers in the classroom spent time with each child showing and guiding them along throughout their daily activities. Each child got a turn during meals or snacks to help pass food out and during circle time, each child got a turn to do the activity. Inclusion, such as that demonstrated by the RISE School, is missing out of so many schools today. I saw the importance of including every child in every lesson and in the 14 weeks I was there I could visibly see a difference in the children with disabilities. They liked being challenged and were learning and growing from it. Include every child in your lessons, you could be the guidance and support they need.
Tagged with: Classroom • inclusion • inclusive environment • preschool • RISE School